Embodied Eros: The Art of Erotic Confidence

Los Angeles, CA

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What to Expect

A retreat grounded in nervous system regulation and connection to other men in a community. Erotic confidence isn’t a personality trait, it’s a trainable nervous system skills. This weekend helps men build grounded confidence through safety, pacing, consent repts and structured touch practice.

The Structure

A high structure, high choice retreat. Perfect for :

  • men who might freeze, overthing, lose themself or people please during intimacy.

  • men who feel pressure to “perform” or move too fast

  • men who struggle to speak up mid connection

  • men who seek to enjoy sex without spiraling into anxiety

Collaborative Energy

Connection is a core part of the process. You’ll spend the weekend in community with other men who are seeking similar things, who are open to explore and grow, who will commit to safety, consent, touch, tears and laughter.

Expert Facilitation

Led by experienced guides and experts in men’s sexuality, Trevor James and Paul Lennander.

A Supportive Space

Our events prioritize comfort, safety, and respect—so you can show up as you are and fully engage in the process.

Reconnect with your body and mind as you escape the noise of everyday life.
Day One

Arrive & Meet

As everyone arrives, we take time to settle in, get comfortable, and begin connecting with those around us. The journey starts here.

Check-In

9:00 – 9:30am

Group Activity

11:00am

Lunch Break

12:30pm

Creative Workshop

2:00pm

Dinner

6:30pm

Day Two

Set Intentions & Reflect

Together, we pause to consider our goals, hopes, and direction. This is about aligning with ourselves and with the journey ahead. This is a chance to reconnect with what brought you here—your questions, your hopes, your turning points—and consider how they’ve shifted or deepened.

Check-In

9:00 – 9:30am

Group Activity

11:00am

Lunch Break

12:30pm

Creative Workshop

2:00pm

Dinner

6:30pm

Day Three

Look Forward & Wrap Up

We explore the possibilities beyond this moment, making space for growth, action, and forward momentum. As we end our time together, we honor the experience, the growth, and the connections made along the way.

Check-In

9:00 – 9:30am

Group Activity

11:00am

Lunch Break

12:30pm

Creative Workshop

2:00pm

Dinner

6:30pm

Make it stand out.

  • "I have come to believe over and over again that what is most important much be spoke, made verbal and shared, even at the risk of having it bruised or misunderstand"

    Audra Lorde

  • "For sexuality to reach a level worthy of being called sacred, it takes full cooperation of healthy and aware partners and healers

    Michael Mirdad

  • "There are so many aspects of human sexuality that we are afriad to talk about , because people still don't understand it"

    Sasha Grey

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